This may be a very “racy” topic, so I want to apologize beforehand for I don’t mean to offend. I am not taking a side on this in order to avoid conflict.
My two friends got into a heated conversation the other night about sex. Yes, I said it, SEX. Both of my friends have good heads on their shoulders, yet one is just a little bit more religious than the other. My friend Barney, (no real names are being used), stated that he is saving himself for marriage. Now, being in a college environment, you would assume that most guys have given it a go already! Well not this one. So that’s when my other friend, Big Bird, couldn’t believe her ears.
Big Bird: “Wait what you’ve never fucked a girl?” (Sorry for my profanity).
Barney: “When I get married, I want to give my wife something I have never given to any women in order to proclaim my love for her. If I save myself, I am truly stating that I love her more than any other women. I am experiencing something new with her, and giving her a part of me no other person has received”
So then came the next question.
Big Bird: “ Well does your wife have to be a virgin?”
Barney: “ Well..um…yes, that’s kind of the point. I mean the thought of another guy having her before me would just cause moral problems in our marriage.”
Big bird: “ So if you meet the most amazing women, who is perfect in every way, but she’s had sex, you wouldn’t marry her?”
Barney: “Well no, I mean I guess there are exceptions. However, I know I wouldn’t be mentally stable in that relationship for I am giving my whole self to her, but in her mind I'm just another guy.”
The question raised is: How can you marry a woman without knowing how she is in bed? I mean to put it nicely, isn’t sexual chemistry a huge part of a relationship? I have the utmost respect and honor for a guy in college who is able to save himself, but do you honestly think he is benefiting off this sacrifice?
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Wow, this guy seems to be near perfect if those words came out of his mouth. I felt like I was watching The Notebook. I agree with him, though. Nearly all of my friends from high school (except 1) and all that I've met here in college (except 2) have already had sex plenty of times. I happen to be the proud virgin among both groups. I am a Christian and I try to maintain Christian values, however, I have "hooked up" with a few guys in the past, I've just never gone to the farthest point, which is actual intercourse. I think having sex with a person you are not married to is simply wrong and disgusting.
Sex is something that should be saved until marriage. You don't need to "test drive the car" before you are married because the sex will be good no matter what because you will be with the person you love. Waiting till marriage is not for everyone but personally i think waiting till marriage makes your relationship with a person not dependent on sex.
I have not had sex and college is going to be a test, but when I am married and have sex for the first time i am sure I will be glad I decided to wait for the right person.
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